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I’ve been thinking of what to post when I saw this topic posted by one woman in Mylot site, I got curious with her title and I continued reading  the article and the responses she got from other readers.

“I want my husband to have an affair with another woman

Yes, you’ve read it right. Crazy, isn’t it? When other wives are complaining about their husbands having an affair with other women, here I am wanting my husband to try to have an affair with another woman. Weird?… yes, I think I am.
No, my husband is not gay. He is just a perfect husband. We have been married for 23 years and never did we have a serious fight over anything. He doesn’t give me any reasons to get angry because he loves me so much and he has been a very good, responsible and loving husband.
However, living with a perfect husband for 23 years is becoming boring. There is nothing to spice up the relationship. I also want to experience how it feels to be jealous… How it feels to be challenged when there is another woman in your husband’s life…How it feels when you kiss and hug after a big fight…how it feels to be angry…how it feels to cry and be hurt…how it feels to hurl at your husband with angry, hateful words…how it feels to kick your husband in the a**… and I need a reason for me to do that.
These thoughts just came into my mind. Maybe I just want to know how I will feel and react once I learn that my husband is having an affair with another woman.”

And here are the answers she got from those  who participated in the discussion:

You will not enjoy the feeling and things will never be the same again between you and your husband. What if he enjoys the other woman’s company and left you for her? What if he’d not hug you anymore, nor kiss you anymore, nor talk to you anymore, but to the other woman? What if he spends the holidays with her instead than with you? What if he forgets all about you and cares so much about the other girl? What if, he doesn’t want an argument with you? No chance for you to get hug and kiss after a fight? What if you’ll cry and feel pained the rest of your life because you realized it is him that you wanted and not the thrill? What if you’ll be angry with yourself and not him because of such “foolish” idea? Jesus! Why do you want to complicate things that you’ll regret later? Is it his fault that he loves you so much and wanted to be the worthy husband for you? Is that what you really want? Then, if so, you tell him and push him to the next woman who’d be lucky to replace you… God bless…

Believe me when I say: be contented with what you have. For the majority, you have the best life ever because you do not have any issues with your husband. There are a lot of people out there that are having a difficult time with their husbands and would rather be in somebody else’s shoes. Remember there are some guys there who never change so think of how their wives sleep at night. So be thankful that you have that kind of life because it is definitely heaven sent. As I have said to a lot of people be grateful with what you have and where you are at right now because not everybody gets to where you are at and gets what you have/had.

Yes, I understand that curiosity about things that we don’t fully understand or can only understand when we ourselves are placed into such a situation. I think, for most women, be it in an unstable relationship or one which is still going through their respective adjustments, they would consider your situation to be that perfect picture. Even lines and shades, not over-lapping the margin or going through the frame, tones or colors not over powering another. Then again, that’s why we seldom try to listen to those who have already experienced such situations, wherein they themselves know the details of relationships that went sour. They know how it can begin and how one can prevent it. They would also know the expected outcome and emotions which the participants would have through such an ordeal.Listening to those, if imagination for such things happening isn’t enough to quench our curiosity, should at least be a guide for those who seem to be threading the same journey.”

Yes, I also think this is a crazy idea, why ruin a  perfect relationship, just to fulfill a curiosity. Are human can’t be  satisfied with what they already have and keep on searching for something they may not find? Is this the complexity and oddity of human nature? Or a MID-LIFE CRISIS?

Anyways after reading all the answers to her discussion she was somewhat enlightened of what might be the consequences SHOULD her husband have an affair with another woman and the outcome may not be what she wished for. Interesting isn’t it, why not share your ideas too?