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Bored with her Husband
I’ve been thinking of what to post when I saw this topic posted by one woman in Mylot site, I got curious with her title and I continued reading the article and the responses she got from other readers.
“I want my husband to have an affair with another woman
Yes, you’ve read it right. Crazy, isn’t it? When other wives are complaining about their husbands having an affair with other women, here I am wanting my husband to try to have an affair with another woman. Weird?… yes, I think I am.
No, my husband is not gay. He is just a perfect husband. We have been married for 23 years and never did we have a serious fight over anything. He doesn’t give me any reasons to get angry because he loves me so much and he has been a very good, responsible and loving husband.
However, living with a perfect husband for 23 years is becoming boring. There is nothing to spice up the relationship. I also want to experience how it feels to be jealous… How it feels to be challenged when there is another woman in your husband’s life…How it feels when you kiss and hug after a big fight…how it feels to be angry…how it feels to cry and be hurt…how it feels to hurl at your husband with angry, hateful words…how it feels to kick your husband in the a**… and I need a reason for me to do that.
These thoughts just came into my mind. Maybe I just want to know how I will feel and react once I learn that my husband is having an affair with another woman.”
And here are the answers she got from those who participated in the discussion:
- You will not enjoy the feeling and things will never be the same again between you and your husband. What if he enjoys the other woman’s company and left you for her? What if he’d not hug you anymore, nor kiss you anymore, nor talk to you anymore, but to the other woman? What if he spends the holidays with her instead than with you? What if he forgets all about you and cares so much about the other girl? What if, he doesn’t want an argument with you? No chance for you to get hug and kiss after a fight? What if you’ll cry and feel pained the rest of your life because you realized it is him that you wanted and not the thrill? What if you’ll be angry with yourself and not him because of such “foolish” idea? Jesus! Why do you want to complicate things that you’ll regret later? Is it his fault that he loves you so much and wanted to be the worthy husband for you? Is that what you really want? Then, if so, you tell him and push him to the next woman who’d be lucky to replace you… God bless…
- Believe me when I say: be contented with what you have. For the majority, you have the best life ever because you do not have any issues with your husband. There are a lot of people out there that are having a difficult time with their husbands and would rather be in somebody else’s shoes. Remember there are some guys there who never change so think of how their wives sleep at night. So be thankful that you have that kind of life because it is definitely heaven sent. As I have said to a lot of people be grateful with what you have and where you are at right now because not everybody gets to where you are at and gets what you have/had.
- Yes, I understand that curiosity about things that we don’t fully understand or can only understand when we ourselves are placed into such a situation. I think, for most women, be it in an unstable relationship or one which is still going through their respective adjustments, they would consider your situation to be that perfect picture. Even lines and shades, not over-lapping the margin or going through the frame, tones or colors not over powering another. Then again, that’s why we seldom try to listen to those who have already experienced such situations, wherein they themselves know the details of relationships that went sour. They know how it can begin and how one can prevent it. They would also know the expected outcome and emotions which the participants would have through such an ordeal.Listening to those, if imagination for such things happening isn’t enough to quench our curiosity, should at least be a guide for those who seem to be threading the same journey.”
Yes, I also think this is a crazy idea, why ruin a perfect relationship, just to fulfill a curiosity. Are human can’t be satisfied with what they already have and keep on searching for something they may not find? Is this the complexity and oddity of human nature? Or a MID-LIFE CRISIS? 
Anyways after reading all the answers to her discussion she was somewhat enlightened of what might be the consequences SHOULD her husband have an affair with another woman and the outcome may not be what she wished for. Interesting isn’t it, why not share your ideas too?
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this is very interesting topic. it is very hard for me to answer a friend question about her relationship with her hubby. maybe one time I will post a parallel topic and hope you and your reader could answer my curiosity.
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Wow, she’s crazy to even think about that. Anyhow, there’s so much excitement she can bring to their perfect relationship like adventures and getaways, surprises, etc. Other woman is a no-no to start with.
@ SurrealPrincess – from all the comments I read, seems nobody like her idea of thrill..
What a crazy idea! Perhaps, she’s a person who doesn’t know what a real life is and how it goes when trouble starts to rise. I wonder how she’s going to cope up with it, if it really happens. Gee, be careful what you wish for?
@ Liza – I agree 100%, she was blinded with so much comfort and now seeking for some thrills in expense of her perfect relationship.
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I am also a mylotters.. but never saw that post. Thanks I drop by in your blog. She is a crazy woman for wishing that thing. Seems she is wishing for a monster in her life just to make her life more exciting and thrill. Nice Job you found that post.
@ Ada – yes that’s a crazy thing even to think about, but I guess she had a change of heart after reading all the comments.
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She should be thankful that she got a “perfect” husband. But I agree with her, marriage becomes boring when there’s nothing to spice it up. I think what she’s asking is balance. This is an interesting post. Thanks for sharing it with us.
Lots of love,
@ Golden – oh yes she is, but she should think of other outlet instead of this to spice up her boring life.. hmm any suggestion?
Ohh I saw that post too but I just could not bring myself to even read it in it’s fullness. Naloka ako. I won’t ever think of anything like this. Maybe in jest I would joke around about having a threesome! But no, not seriously, and never for him to cheat around.
@ Vera – yes, let’s just hope her husband won’t find out about it or else, she’s inviting TROUBLE…
This is very interesting post. I would really be happy having a husband like hers who is so in love with her in 23 years..wow, that’s a darn long years. I wish my husband would do the same..so far my husband didn’t cheat on me yet within 3 years of marriage and how I hope he will not even think of cheating.
@ Chie – oh yes, this is every wife’s dream, a loving husband. She’s very lucky but didn’t know how to appreciate this blessing.
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How can people get so self-centered sometimes that they don’t count the blessings they already have.
@ Gee – Yeah I like the psychiatrist idea, lol..
@ Chubskulit – hehehe, does doing nothing can make us crazy? I have to find something to do or I’ll end up like her
@ Carmen – sometimes it’s really hard to understand how some people think, she has the greatest blessing a woman can ask for and now trying to ruin it. Gosh, good thing there were people who made her think clearly.
She’s definitely insane of having thoughts like that. What in the wrld would you compromise a good relationship to a rocky one. I love the first comment/suggestion as it is like a hammer to the head of that woman lol..
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Some people just don’t know how to appreciate what they’ve got. If she’s bored, she better think of something better to do than to wish her husband having affairs. Like meeting a psychiatrist? I think she needs it.
I think this woman is a bored stay at home with. 23 years of marriage – probably the kids are already grown up. Yeah, when you’ve got plenty of time in your hands, idle minds make non-productive thoughts.